Yeah, I’ve been putting off this post. Why?
I happen to live in a teeny tiny cartoon town where some people know about my blog and read it. That don’t like my posts but when I meet up with them it comes up in conversation sometimes.
I don’t feel I should be blogging if I can’t speak my mind – so to all the judgemental people out there
.I know a lot of other peoples secrets and battles and for the record, if you don’t get me – well, one less person to worry about.
GOOD NEWS -first. I have finished year one of my MA In Creative writing. Pat my back.I’m waiting for my results for my final piece -the second act to the homeless couple piece and I’m registered to start the final 120 credits in October…
My head and emotions have been all over the place. I know I shouldn’t feel ashamed but because I’ve done a lot of volunteering and work with mental health charities I’ve been scared to put this on here.
Here is my conclusion to not being honest and writing for me.
If future potential opportunities and (other peoples judgements) on my ability to do them effectively is in doubt
Well, I say people can be hypocrites. Just because you work in a mental health sector doesn’t mean you have your shit together all the time.
In the last 13 days, I’ve probably had about 23 hours of sleep
I decided it would be a great idea not to drink and indulge in another recreational drug
I don’t know when to stop.
My heart can be seizing up –
,I can’t. breathe,
I meet up with dodgy folk and willingly hand over money to chase a sense of self.
Here is the truth. I hate alcohol, I hate all drugs to be honest. The only drug I ever fell in love with was an ecstasy-rave bunny.
That is not to say I didn’t get addicted to some heavy drugs but I worked through it.
These past days have been delirious.
Who in their right mind will continue buying a drug where the quality varies from alright to fuck I need to go to A&E
I think the females in my family are tough. We are born survivors and fighters and we do screw up. Oh hell, yes.
I don’t know why it’s taking me so long to get my self together.
12 days of pure craziness
Sleazy people. I have valid reasons for saying this
Things get serious when I’ put in as room with people with no morals and my attitude and big mouth
It’s hard to be 100 % honest on here these days. I don’t drink a lot but when I do I binge drink
I gave up drinking for a while and thought I would try another drug.
Because that is so logical and rational! ewer.. no!
I got skanked by a guy I’ve helped and known for Years.
I hadn’t seen him since 2013. I always went that bit further to help him out when he was having issues.
I’d buy him food, sit with him when nobody else would give him the time of day..
I got in touch with him.
I nearly did a 180 degree turn when I saw him.
He is a shell of the man he used to be.. the drugs do not work.
He managed to score something.It made me buzz for a bit but I know it wasn’t quality shit.
His contact was some foreign sexist drug dealer who spoke to me like I was a piece of shit.
I told him straight- who is handing over the money and I want to see what I am buying.
My so-called mate took this as an opportunity to ask for a bit and I love to share but I have a life and responsibilities. I helped him out as much as I could.
He is past saving.
I went on a bender thinking I’m invincible. Day turned to night and then day again.
I decided that was it- No more dealing with that person and his lot.
A few numbers were sent to my inbox and I thought – yeah… let’s try again.
Stupid girl indeed.
I was obsessed with running out. So, I made a few phone calls and got in touch with a new drug dealer.
This guy was one of the paranoid drug dealer types
It was all are you a cop etc etc?
The stuff was not brilliant but the compulsion to have and not be without made me seek out more.
I went back to ex-friend. This time I spent money and got screwed. I actually threw half the contents down the toilet.
I got in touch with this new guy again and he’s one of them (not being racist)Asian lads who don’t like being questioned
He gave me all this bullshit about coming to meet me then plans changed and I had to meet some strange cousin runner of his who skanked me with god knows what
I got on the phone straight away to the supplier and I gave him hell.
Finally convinced him that his little runner was the one who pulled a fast one. not me.
This cockroach- gave the whole spiel of I will sort you out -apologies, I’ll be there in 10 min , one hour turned to 8 hours
I was fuming. I sent him a text along the lines of its not about the money it’s the principleYour business ethic is amateurish. You are a wannabe. come collect your shit- You say you keep your word well… etc. etc..
I basically told him he wasn’t as clever as he thought he was and I didn’t think he would last as a business whatever. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND
Cut my losses and went back to bed. 8 am I get a phone call from this guy
Early morning o received a phone call from him -I was surprised.
He started giving me that whole Fuck you mother fucking bitch
He easy giving it the big I am a somebody
Mother fucking bitch
I’m gonna put 6000 pounds on your head
I’m coming round your house and I’m gonna break your jaw
I thought fuck this bullshit I can also scream and shout
So-called his bluff (Iprayed it was a bluff) but I was ready to defend myself, my family and go out there and show him I won’t be intimidated
I was terrified. I didn’t know what this guy had planned I waited outside. He rang and said he’s out side. I went outside and I’m like where the fuck are you take your shit shove it up your arse etc..
Then he’s like can you let me speak…
Okay .. calmed down let him speak..
He’s having a hard time with his car, and life and did I really think he was going to come to my home and do what he said he was going to do?
We had a conversation -civil and then he said yeah I will sort you out…
These are not games I play.. the waiting game
I got in touch with someone else and thought right time to play you mofo.
Said I had xx amount of money I’m torn between being”loyal” to cockroach and scoring off someone else
This tune changed in a nano scene. Right I’ll get a taxi. and give you amount that I owe you because of the shit his runner sold me
I was like you have half an hour.
I was being truthful
He then rings up with another campfire story – oh no -he can get me to amount I Sid I would pay for but only give me the IOU/decent thing to do if all drugs were legal another time.
That was it for me.
I went with the other people- expensive but better and I’ve put not only myself through hell but my family.
My child is not around when I do it but I and my better half were on the verge of having a massive arena battle
It got the point on Saturday night when I decided it would be a good idea to get more so as not to run out…
I only told my husband when I got a text to say meet me outside
My husband did something I’ve never seen him do- he had these nan chunks and he went for this other dude. I stopped him.
It was intense- to hear my husband say he wanted to hurt me scared me handmade me feel ashamed.
WTF ? he doesn’t deserve this shit. I’m killing myself and so it’s got to the point where I have to say adios
My health is suffering, my relationships and I don’t like being controlled by people, drugs or anything.
Know how to stop and can do it and have done it many times
I am not going to hide that I will always have an addictive nature.
It takes everything from me My awesome personality, my creativity, my empathy and it takes up my moments and my days.
So here I am. Doing what I need to do.
Maybe I shouldn’t be so in yer face with drug dealers but I have no respect for them when I am getting poor customer service, value and a shitty attitude like I’m doing them a favour.
Without our money, they wouldn’t have a demand to supply.
I am a stickler for justice, integrity and keeping a person to their word – does ‘t matter who you are.
One thing I have realised is do not let other people intimidate you – if they give you bullshit give back to them – bullies back down soon enough.
It could have got to the point where I am so far down the line like ex-friend
I don’t want to e that person.
It shocked me to see this person the way he is now and how all he is bothered about is his next hit
I’m not saying I’m better than him but I had time to get out before it took away everyting that made me who I am
Yes, people, even rug dealers are human and I am willing to empathise but do not try and fuck me over because I will stand my ground and I will fight.
Looking forward to sleep, getting my personality back, life on the go
and well…. I will always be an addict.I am addicted to my eating disorder. I will always need or find something to fill that void.
The times I thrive and people reciprocate are when I am me – in all my weirdness- not out of my head
So there are the cold hard facts.
I hope I will never let this demon back I Ama fighter and have fought many battles and won a few.
these are my words
Daisy life update.