‘If it is true that soulmates should forever, always remain happy together.
Likewise,forever, together, is a long time for soulmates to remain happy together.’
*EPIC GRINGE* but I have hit publish.. How did I do?
Definitions for chiasmus
Rhetoric. a reversal in the order of words in two otherwise parallel phrases, as in “He went to the country, to the town went she.”
Citations for chiasmus
What Phillips likes best, however, is wordplay. Inversion, circumlocution, alliteration, assonance, chiasmus, paradox: there’s nothing he doesn’t go in for. “The unexamined life is surely worth living, but is the unlived life worth examining?”
One well-known example of chiasmus is Quintillian’s purported phrase “one does not (a) live to (b) eat; one (b) eats to (a) live.” … Other examples are Mae West’s “it’s not the men in my life [that matter], it’s the life in my men.” And then there is President John F. Kennedy’s famous phrase, “ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country.”
Moving forwards is easy to say.
Doing it though is rather dreary and I must ask is their a fixed pay?
Moving forwards helps take you from the now into the future.
Isn’t that better than being stuck in some outdated timed out computer?
Moving on helps you reconnect with family and friends.
Who knew reaching out would receive such a variety of hugs and vocal extends.
Moving forwards to heal the heart.
Is not easy when some one has wormed a way in and jolted it to jump start.
Moving on is the only way to go .
Its hard, especially when the tears refuse to flow.
Moving on when you still want to shake hands with your past .
Sounds mad but the heart doesn’t come with a free pass..
Moving on and each day will create more distance.
Not exactly what I want but some other minds can’t be controlled by my persistence.
Moving on need not mean to forget;
but it allows a space for that person to come back when they are ready to let go of their demonised, imagined debt.
* LEARN AND CARRY ON LOVING. LIFE LESSONS*
I am trying to increase my word vocabulary so here goes: Use the word ‘selenotropism‘ in a sentence or phrase.
“My biological make up, dictates that I can’t fail ,for like a flower, even on the darkest of nights, the moon will still shine and guide me to a state of selenotropism” #wordoftheday
Let it go
just go with the flow.
My mind comprehends all that I need to let it go.
I change my physiological state to shock my brain into a newly formed hedgerow.
What about the heart?
My heart , specifically?
We all make mistakes and some fail despicably.
To assume, that one actually cares as much as I do,
was possibly the most arrogant act and now,
I am that potato, left forgotten in the stew.
All heart – open to vulnerability.
I better change and put on a long-sleeved T-shirt
to wipe my snivelling tears and rejected mucus and hurt.
I’m so naive
I do believe.
Let it go.
Just go with the flow.
I write because I know that it eases some of this rejection blow.
Stuck in a vortex with stale, carbon monoxide breathe.
How can a feeling of rejection make ME want to feel nothing- even death?
This is not me.
My emotions are struggling against the tide,
crustal plates continue to move at the bottom of the sea.
Climate change – is the world ready to blow?
My nature is one who hates to be struck through the heart by a clueless arrow.
Why does it matter so much to me?
Why does it matter?
Full rejection would probably make it final.
Give me peace, answer me or just snap the cord – every vertebra of my spine – break me until……
is all I want in my heart.
I fight these thoughts but my heart drives me into some dark quagmire with loud noises from creatures that bark.
They snap too -not just at my ankles- but plunge their fisted paws, right inside the most fragile part of me- the part of me that is more like natures own bark.
Trees, flowers, love and hugs.
All worthy drugs from my from an undying lover;
from someone who loves me even though I am crying out to be hung.
Cut me loose.
If you care – or at least answer me – I’ve given my all not just to be flung like Apollo’s impulsive son.
* what is better ? to be partly rejected or fully rejected? friendships, relationships, acquaintances? *
What’s that saying about rather hearing ‘I don’t like you’ than being ignored.
I can deal with ‘I don’t like you’.
“If you are going to re visit the past make sure you don’t have any expectations. This is the best armour you can possibly have to protect you from disappointment. If you get something good from revisiting the past -it will be a surprise and a blessing” DAISY
I’ve learnt that time is indeed a great healer.
I believe that as long as my intentions are good and come from a good place then I don’t need no particular faith or religion in my life to direct me.
I know inside -already what is right and wrong. I was born with a certain code of ethics and life and the people in my life have helped shape and mould my beliefs and values.
I have got to a point where I am happy with my values and beliefs.
This morning I learnt a valuable lesson.
We are not born evil.
We my do horrific things to each other in our relationships but relationships require hard work , commitment, compromise and respect and trust.
Love does feature and there is a saying that ‘love conquers all’.
I feel this quote can only to be true when we know what true love means and what true love asks of us.
Sometimes we say we love someone, for fear of being alone or because we are scared of not having some kind of attention.
I am so blessed today as every day.
I have a beautiful family and we are all going to be able to take on the same name- the traditional way.
I will still be Willows on here but I will be Mrs Willows and our daughter and me will take on G’s name in the real world.
Today I received some fantastic news about this whole changing of names.
Thank you for not fighting me.
The past is the past.
We are never who we were 5 years ago, 1 year ago, a day ago or even an hour ago.
I was asleep 1 hour ago- not ready for today.
I am now Blogging and getting ready for what I need to get done today.
We can be so ugly to one another when we are hurt, confused, insecure and not stable or thinking straight.
I’m so blessed and grateful I have found my soul mate. We have an amazing child.
In 6 days time I will let go of the name I have had for 34 years and take on a new name.
I’m so excited about this new chapter.
Sometimes we have to die a bit so that we can be re born.
It’s painful to let go and die..
I’m ready to take my first breathe in my new life.
I know it is going to be worth it.
Don’t be afraid of endings.
Be excited that an ending usually means a beginning.
Such is the nature of life.
Like a circle we will constantly go through our ups and downs. We will be at the top of the circle sometimes and at other times at the bottom.
We need this balance .
I needed to feel hurt in order to know true love.
Blessings do indeed come in a variety of disguises.
We-Me and G- have been through so much and I still feel the same way I do about him that I did the first time I met him.
Oh he is a pain in the ass at times, stubborn and well… stubborn..
He respects me more than any other man I have been with.
Trusts me – we don’t have secrets even the worst kind .
He isn’t perfect but who is?
These are my words for today.