Reminiscent of an uprising of crickets ready to battle.
Stare at a puffed updiamond heart
Drumming inside an empty cage.
Birds ripped apart.
Gargoyle stares ignored.
Folk bumble about unaware of what’s in store for us all,
The breathe of Hades lingers
then makes a dash for scant flesh and bones.
Meat is not this gods instrument
Lust causes the call for more drones.
Sponge, moisten parched parted lips
Raven signals the ire of its whips.
The ones who don’t loose it in bedlam excite
Invites all loved ones to rally around
Stands by door.
Stands back a while
Admires its own power.
A moment to savour
Every door closed,
Each breath cloys,
Begs for enough fare to cross the distance to embrace Elysium air.
Today everyone shall know how close we are to parting from brown soil.
Babies born in Cumbersome air.
The cycle must complete before we can emerge reborn.
Death is inevitable as necessary as life is to the Cumbaya of springs first show of petal.
When you look at the beginning of this new dawn,
Know that when you stand back in awe
Its because you have felt the chill of winters soul depart.
Shed a tear for the snowman who brought our youth so much joy.
Stare it in the face.
The sun chants
counting his rosary beads.
Tomorrow never dies.
Trying to type something while listening and watching my grandmother dying.
I support the assisted dying law.
This is inhumane!
A selfish farce.
Happy mothers day,
Wherever you go
Wherever you roam
I hope that it is a place as magnificent as earths revellers make it out to be.
Ma petit fripon. Je t’aims toujours
This a poem that I wrote whilst waiting and comforting my mom and my gran before she passed over in March 2018, from vascular Dementia and Alzheimers. I wrote it while waiting for her to let go of Life. It’s a Morbid (and possibly strange) thing to do when someone you love is dying in front of you. This was one way of expressing my powerlessness, over a period 3 days watching someone cling on to this Life).*
I have to read a few quotes of Oscar Wilde’s 100 page letter to his lover whilst incarcerated in prison for homosexuality called ‘Profundi’ ( read full article at end of post)
A few people I have spoken with about Wilde’s works dislike him.
He wasn’t a sexist. How could he be? He was for civility or equality and many of his musings and poems big up women & make fun at men.He was abhorred by society for being a homosexual.
For loving some one with his entire being.
Most of us may never feel that intensity of love. To love even if your life is at stake, your career – your status takes utter devotion.
Society is cruel,it really is and from reading this post I truly believe that words are our way to freedom. The one thing / people that we are not at mercy to .
Words are our mercy.
Quote Natasha Bodley
A trip to Oxford reading prison is now on my bucket list.
I became so emotional reading parts of it in this article.
One of my favourite parts of his letter Profundi
I want to get to the point when I shall be able to say quite simply, and without affectation that the two great turning-points in my life were when my father sent me to Oxford, and when society sent me to prison. I will not say that prison is the best thing that could have happened to me: for that phrase would savour of too great bitterness towards myself. I would sooner say, or hear it said of me, that I was so typical a child of my age, that in my perversity, and for that perversity’s sake, I turned the good things of my life to evil, and the evil things of my life to good.
What is said, however, by myself or by others, matters little. The important thing, the thing that lies before me, the thing that I have to do, if the brief remainder of my days is not to be maimed, marred, and incomplete, is to absorb into my nature all that has been done to me, to make it part of me, to accept it without complaint, fear, or reluctance. The supreme vice is shallowness. Whatever is realised is right.
Society, as we have constituted it, will have no place for me, has none to offer; but Nature, whose sweet rains fall on unjust and just alike, will have clefts in the rocks where I may hide, and secret valleys in whose silence I may weep undisturbed. She will hang the night with stars so that I may walk abroad in the darkness without stumbling, and send the wind over my footprints so that none may track me to my hurt: she will cleanse me in great waters, and with bitter herbs make me whole.
Let’s TALK ABOUT THAT FUCKING ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM!
Yeah, I’m obviously not going ignore that it is WORLD SUICIDE PREVENTION DAY -especially considering the work and training I have been doing this week, around Mental Health Recovery embracing the 5 key concepts to the Wellness Recovery Action Plan Programme. HOPE-People who experience mental health difficulties get well, stay well and go on to meet their life dreams and goals. SELF-RESPONSIBILITY- It’s up to you, with the assistance of others, to take action and do what needs to be done to keep yourself well. EDUCATION-Learning all you can about what you are experiencing so you can make good decisions about all aspects of your life. SELF-ADVOCACY-Effectively reaching out to others so that you can get what it is that you need, want and deserve to support your wellness and recovery. SUPPORT – While working toward your wellness is up to you, receiving support from others, and giving support to others will help you feel better and enhance the quality of your life. WRAP is . . . I’ve been so inspired, comforted, shocked and angered by the stories I have heard this week. Every one of us has been through shit- the same clinical diagnoses come up again and again, being drugged, feeling ashamed, stigmatized. Being called crazy for acting in a way where obviously a person’s mental health is not good for whatever reasons. Still, we live in this society. With this Victorian -lock them away, throw away the key mentality. In my life, I have met people from all walks of life, ethnicities, religion, job roles/class. I knew a physiatrist, (I have known many) who was not mine but a fellow inpatient, just like me. No one will know who I am on about. It was many years ago and nobody who knows me today and who I connect with today will know this person. The thing with suicide – it can be intentional and unintentional – a quick act or an act that goes on for years until eventually, Grim reaper does come to collect. Usually, there are years of pain and suffering and wearing the ‘I am ‘normal’ mask, not like – them – the “crazy” -unwell people, before someone does intentionally/unintentionally ends their life. “I only drink 1/2/3 glasses of alcohol, a spliff, a night/at weekends to calm me down/get a buzz .” I’ve heard that a lot. Why does a person need this kind of outlet and coping mechanism to chill or escape from reality? I include myself in this. Life is stressful. We are not helping our mates, colleagues, family, friends and community by pretending this is one of the healthy ways to cope. “I only inject heroin or smoke crack, snort coke/Ket on weekends” It’s recreational use.” I hear that too. These very words have come out of my mouth over the years. SELFIE- WE ARE HAVING A BLAST – ONLY ON THE WEEKENDS! “I can’t cope with life at all and need to take antidepressants/ mood stabilisers/ drink/smoke/inject/starve/comfort eat to cope and deal with the stresses of life” I can hear the crowd heckling and tsking already. That person has gone too far. “All in moderation.” I hear some people say. Have you actually looked at what the ( ahem..) governments guidelines for how much alcohol you are actually “advised” ( doesn’t mean you should) to drink or the number of painkillers you should take and when you should take them? (if that is your “thing”) Did you go out and buy a government, custom made, wine, beer glass or whatever to make sure you are getting the correct dose? If you look at your drinking glasses compared to what the size of the glass that is advised (if you insist on drinking something that happens to be legal), I think you may have gone over the limit. In this context, The moderation theory is a fucking myth, in my opinion. Food is legal – people get addicted to it/not eating it. So is Sex. So is stealing – that is illegal, of course. Why are we self-medicating ourselves in this way? Ask yourself. Don’t point a finger at Bob or Tina next door who are total mad heads, crazy, raging druggies or whatever, who are always having a bust-up. Look at your own life. The own things you use to keep you well, that keep you able to make it to work the next day or not. Keep you ticking over just nicely enough to cope with Lifes/ people’s unrealistic expectations of you. Just a thought. Do or don’t. I am not here to judge. I’m merely expressing my thoughts. I’m thinking/ musing– being human. I know I come across as confrontational in this post and maybe I am. Hell, yes I am. I’m pissed off at how society decides who is fit and who is a misfit. There are so many other ways to chill, be happy, live. Why do we (I include myself in we) choose ways that are not actually healthy? Why do we alter the wiring in our brain? Numb our feelings? What is wrong with feeling and expressing so-called “weak” ” negative” feelings? Take a look at your friend, a stranger in the street/ family member/ the person who calls you crazy. See this? It’s not hard to figure it out. Did you know that a person with a label of schizophrenia is more likely to kill him/herself before harming another? Yes, self-medicating – drinking, taking drugs to cope increases the chances of a person with a diagnosed mental illness becoming violent. Think of Christmas, bank holidays, seasonal drinkers who congregate in civilised places to drink or even the illegal drug takers who congregate wherever to imbibe whatever substance. I’ve been to these pubs/clubs/houses/parks/festivals/doss houses sober and seen what “normal” looks like. How many of those people do you know? Do you know their background, mind state? Really, How well do you know them? Have you seen what alcohol and drugs can do to a person who is a “normal” member of society? “It was the alcohol, the prick who looked at me differently, the fucking coach of whatever sports team, that German/English/ French prick.” What you put into your body will change how you act/perceive things and that is my point. If I drink alcohol – when I have and done so, I tend to binge drink and I can “lose” it. One last thing to think about, if you wish. If I asked you to visually describe and give traits of a person who you think is likely to think about or actually take their own life, what does that person look like? Here is a Fact: or about as accurate as a statistic can tell you. The person most likely to attempt/take their own life, according to the statistic website I chose to use, White Male age 30- 64 method: firearm, strangulation, suffocation and poisoning Previous Attempts to self-harm. My husband No items found. I’m using him as an example with his permission, of course. 😀 Five years ago, he did fit into most of the criteria for being the person who is more likely to attempt/commit suicide. He thought about ending his life when he was bullied, in his early teens, in the neighbourhood, he grew up in. My husband has ended up in A&E due to an injury he acquired intoxicated. In his case, skateboarding accident. Today, he is not suicidal nor does he own a firearm( it is illegal to in the U.K.) He has not drunk alcohol in 5 years, doesn’t smoke or use drugs – he has never even smoked a cigarette.
One reason global leaders are able to sleep at night? They find absolution in ‘the family’. ( Check out Netflix) these global leaders, politicians, and public figures have invented a Covent composed of ( rather) impressionable modern-day “disciples” to justify what they let bypass / happen to our world.
They have messed with men’s spiritual health. By spiritual, I mean I don’t necessarily mean in a religious sense. We are all thinkers. We have the ability to feel & reason. Spirituality can be something emotional & philosophical. Our spirituality is personal to each and every one of us.
These bastard leaders are killing our planet.
They have brainwashed themselves to believe that they are “chosen “to lead for religious reasons.
Can you grasp how much power that is to give to 1 % of the elite in this world?
Nobody – alone can control all that power. Greed corrupts. This is just an example of how one ( ahem) leader- Thump justifies🙄 his outlandish & vapid ramblings on the trade wars with China & U.S.A. we need a revolution of consciousness.
750 Starving lions were found in captivation ( malnourished )& their sole purpose for living was for Trophy Hunting.
People in Serengeti are being forced from their homes to make way for poachers to slaughter our earth wildlife. Our delicate & intricate ecosystems.
China killed another whale today. After 30 years of efforts to save these mammals. They are now activley commercially hunting whales again. Why? Greed & corruption. The divided between the West and East is killing our planet with policies.
Yes, I’m passionate because I sense the complacency in society ( in myself even) to fill the void and over-consume. Desensitize our selves more to what is happening to our home. We have blinkers on. We need them to grapple our heads around what a mess the world is in & how what we can do about it.
One act in the right direction. A shift in thinking. A conscious shift. What you do (no matter how small or big) matters. What we do has consequences. SCIENCE 101
I’m sad & I’m mad. All I can offer are my words & to spread the message about what is important right now.
Diamonds that have no value?
Over paper planes & money?
Trees provide us the paper to breathe. Why do we ask more of it? How can it provide life if we burn it out to its very core?
We an indulging in a mass matricide with mother earth and self- suicide and genocide people all over the world. Our own world.
I’m spent. I have to write about what I care about. if only to reinforce what I value & truly believe in.