Strange Blood


How do I  wish you a great day without addressing the past?

Memories are  usually a good place to start.

Let’s forget about the bad ones.

No room for improvement in a negative mind state.

You taught me how to fish.

That was cool because I actually caught a fish but I was not impressed when you threw him back into the ocean – he was too small to eat.

You taught me a valuable lesson:

Compassion and what is necessary.

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That night I was sitting on the step, crying. Mom was going through a tough time. Nobody understood how ill she was and you sat next to me and begged me not to follow in my Mom footsteps. I would never live a life with joy.

I learnt that  enemies can want the same thing and can come from two completely different viewpoints . Ma never wanted me to follow in her footsteps either.

I remember the day I baked you a cake. You came over to Nan’s and you were sobbing. My great granddad was not well.

You taught me that there is a lot that goes inside a person’s mind and just because they don’t express emotion all the time, it doesn’t mean they care any less.

I remember trying to get to know each other in 1994. My holiday and first time back to South Africa in 6 years.

I sensed you were trying to talk . To break the ice. It is a pity my sister in her teens and  a little shit at the time and you had to act as the buffer.

I learnt that vulnerability doesn’t make you weak. I learned that jealousy is a wasted emotion. It makes us say ugly things.  I am only sad you didn’t try again to speak to me -one on one. 

I remember on that same holiday we went on a safari. It was a treat and one of the best days of my life.

You taught me that you did indeed care about my happiness and you wanted to create happy memories.

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The truth is we are not close for so many reasons. I am so over blaming. It’s unproductive and the truth is we do things that we think are the best for each moment we live. 

I understand this because I am a parent.

I know it is hard to instigate a conversation with someone you barely know.

I know you may have feelings about what you could or should have done differently. 

Let’s not get too hung up on what we could have done. 

Focus more on today and what we can do today.

Want to hear something funny?

I may not know you very well but I have kind of ended up getting married to a man whose birthday is two days apart from your own. I am actually marrying my Dad, in a crazy roundabout way.


Before I end this -I want to thank all those silly quizzes you do on Facebook. 

Who would think that I can learn so much about you based on a trivial quiz? 

We may not be close but if anything happened to you and I held you in my heart with resentment and bitterness, I would never forgive myself.

I do love you, Dad. 

There is some ethereal sense of commitment I have to you. I can’t give you up. I have tried but I won’t give up on you -ever.

I know my illness scares/ scares you. 

I am much more self aware th

I know you do but I want to feel you  see you and hear your voice. 

Have a great day , Dad -from the U.K. to S.A.

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ese days. I don’t blame you , Dad. 

All I wish for is to get to know you better. To sit down and have a chat, laugh and I want to look into your eyes and I want you to hug me and tell me you love me.

About Daisy Willows

'Words are my everything' - Jon Wayne . A writer of poetry, stories, stage scripts, fiction, border line poetry & freestyle works, Music reviews, Guest Features/interview & shout outs. She is also passionate about raising anti-stigma & awareness for Mental Health. A trained co-facilitator in Wellness Recovery Action plan by Mary Ellen Copeland Natasha goes by many moniker names-Daisy Willows, bahtuhkid, GOAT2Bdazee. She has had a colourful life. Travelled. Natasha co-owns a second-hand clothing & accessories business -La Bella Bijoux Ltd Natasha was born in South Africa & is a French national. She currently resides in the UK Natasha Bodley holds a postgraduate in the Humanities. A BA in Myth in the Greek and Roman worlds & Advanced creative writing. She also holds a Foundation degree in Acting performance. She is currently working on her first novel (semi-autobiographical creative non-fiction). She has published one short story on Amazon called 'Number one' Connect with Natasha Collaborate with Natasha & feel free to Communicate her too. Light, Peace & Love!

Posted on Jun 19, 2022, in WRITE TO RECOVER and tagged , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 29 Comments.

  1. wow that was intrigueing. came out so truthful and full of belief.


  2. All these emotions are suddenly flooding in! Lovely post. 🙂


  3. wwwpalfitness

    I responded a little while ago. I had to delete it. I saved it and did not want to post it on your site.

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  4. Beautiful and heartfelt words. Thanks for opening up and letting us peek into your world.

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  5. You are one of the most open and honest boggers I have found. And I love the images you use to enhance your posts. Have a great weekend.

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  6. Beautifully written and so honest.

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  7. I Sing the Body Electric

    I love this…you are truly your own woman now. This is a post written by an irrepressible woman with masses of wisdom. What’s special is you can extract meaning from the emotion. It is meaning and wisdom that I’m sure a lot of people will be able to connect with nuggets of wisdom that they may never have arrived at themself without you writing this. With lots of love from your virtual bridesmaid 😊💖🙋

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    • My Queen Bee. You truly know how to make a person feel special. You always champion what I write and it means so much to me. I just want you to know I think you are an incredibly empathetic person and I hope one day we will meet. You are a very special person indeed xxxx Much love

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      • I Sing the Body Electric

        I have tears in my eyes reading this Natasha…thank you so much for what you’ve said 💖😘 Your writing touches me deeply. You’re one of my favourite writers, and I’m not just saying that to suck up. I mean it, and I never say things I don’t mean. Your authenticity is very appealing to me and it shines through in your writing. I was just reading your fab post about class and I feel I’ve learned a lot about you-it was very thought provoking too, and I value people with a past, whose past has made them irrepressible like you are, and I think how I am too. Athough our experiences have been different we are quite similar on a soul level. 😇 I think you’re totes amazing and I too would LOVE to meet. We live in the same country, we’re blogger kindreds, it’d be daft not to! Haha 😆😂 💜💖💙 Xxxxx Wedding countdown continues, eeeeekkkkkkkk! 😘🙋

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      • Stop! we are both going to be in tears soon. After the wedding maybe… I think a Blog I follow is trying to get Bloggers to meet up in Manchester or Leeds. I will need to go through my emails because it was a while back when I got the email. Soul sisters forever xxx


  8. Absolutely fantastic post…..Your dad will be ‘moved’ by this….Loads of Love and Hugs! ❤

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  9. This is so beautiful Daisy, you are truly an amazing loving person, always moving forward with such strength, and clarity, I hope you get all your wishes, lots of love xx

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  10. Oh Daisy, this was so heartwarming, poignant, loving, sad and beautiful all at the same time.

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