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Random thought on a Monday morning

I see a lot of articles about relationships and other people giving you tips/advice if you are dating the right person if that person loves you etc..

The last one I saw – not on here , I will mention.

18 signs you have a good man  and a keeper!

A thought suddenly  occurred to me:

If I need to go through a checklist of 18 signs written by someone else that I am with the right man/partner, then I must be with the wrong man because I am already doubting I am with a good man.

I decided to trust my gut instinct and scroll past the article.

I already know the answer.

I have a good man. I don’t need another person to tell me 1/10/18 or even 100 reasons why I know I have a good man.

I get it that people do fall into bad relationships and sometimes don’t feel able to Trust their own mind.

I have learned to trust my instinct and go with it.

A true journey of self-growth has bloomed in the Willows.

How liberating.

” Trust in yourself- the first thought that seems right is usually the right one- don’t second guess your ability to know what and who is best for you” 


Just a thought.

Back off to read Blogs.

Have a grand week and trust in yourself and your own decisions

About Daisy Willows

'Words are my everything' - Jon Wayne . A writer of poetry, stories, stage scripts, fiction, border line poetry & freestyle works, Music reviews, Guest Features/interview & shout outs. She is also passionate about raising anti-stigma & awareness for Mental Health. A trained co-facilitator in Wellness Recovery Action plan by Mary Ellen Copeland Natasha goes by many moniker names-Daisy Willows, bahtuhkid, GOAT2Bdazee. She has had a colourful life. Travelled. Natasha co-owns a second-hand clothing & accessories business -La Bella Bijoux Ltd Natasha was born in South Africa & is a French national. She currently resides in the UK Natasha Bodley holds a postgraduate in the Humanities. A BA in Myth in the Greek and Roman worlds & Advanced creative writing. She also holds a Foundation degree in Acting performance. She is currently working on her first novel (semi-autobiographical creative non-fiction). She has published one short story on Amazon called 'Number one' Connect with Natasha Collaborate with Natasha & feel free to Communicate her too. Light, Peace & Love!

Posted on Nov 14, 2016, in THOUGHTS and tagged , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 23 Comments.

  1. I like the way you think 😉

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  2. I went from the relationship from hell to one I didn’t think possible. It’s been eleven wonderful years together. I’m glad you also found “the one.”

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  3. Spot on! Instinct and I would add REAL communication with our partners, spending the time to really talk. But not on talking points of some list!

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  4. Excellent Daisy! Too True!!! Love that final image….
    Have a Super Week! Hugs! ❤

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  5. Good solid advice 🙂

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  6. You are so right. If I had listened to my first impression of my first husband, I wouldn’t have dated him let alone married him. But people told me how great we were together…. My second and current hubby was different. We were friends for 10 years before we married and I knew exactly what I was getting into. I am not saying people should wait that long, but your heart knows what it wants!

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  7. summerstartstoshine

    Totally true. Instinct has been lost these days. We feel we must consult the social media herd before we take a shit lol 😹 My instincts were bang on when I met you. I knew you were a special person right from the start 💛💝 😻

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  8. I so agree with you on this. I get similar thoughts while reading a title of that sort. Very well written. 🙂

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