Two hearts. One soul.

“If you are going to re visit the past make sure you don’t have any expectations. This is the best armour you can possibly have to protect you from disappointment. If you get something good from revisiting the past -it will be a surprise and a blessing” DAISY

I’ve learnt that time is indeed a great healer.

I believe that as long as my intentions are good and come from a good place then I don’t need no particular faith or religion in my life to direct me.

I know inside -already what is right and wrong. I was born with a certain code of ethics and life and the people in my life have helped shape and mould my beliefs and values.

I have got to a point where I am happy with my values and beliefs.

This morning I learnt a valuable lesson.

200

We are not born evil.

We my do horrific things to each other in our relationships but relationships require hard work , commitment, compromise and respect and trust.

Love does feature and there is a saying that ‘love conquers all’.

I feel this quote can  only to be true when we know what true love means and what true love asks of us.

giphy (2)

Sometimes we say we love someone, for fear of being alone or because we are scared of not having some kind of attention.

 I am so blessed today as every day.

Especially today.

I have a beautiful family and we are all going to be able to take on the same name- the traditional way.

I will still be Willows on here but I will be Mrs Willows and our daughter and me will take on G’s name in the real world.

Today I received some fantastic news about this whole changing of names.

Thank you for not fighting me.

The past is the past.

We are never who we were 5 years ago, 1 year ago, a day ago or even an hour ago.

I was asleep 1 hour ago- not ready for today.

I am now Blogging and getting ready for what I need to get done today.

giphy

We can be so ugly to one another when we are hurt, confused, insecure and not stable or thinking straight.

I’m so  blessed and grateful I have found my soul mate. We have an amazing child.

In 6 days time I  will let go of the name I have had for 34 years and take on a new name.

I’m so excited about this new chapter.

Sometimes we have to die a bit so that we can be re born.

It’s painful to let go and die..

giphy (1)

I’m ready to take my first breathe in my new life.

I know it is going to be worth it.

Don’t be afraid of endings.

Be excited that an ending usually means a beginning.

Such is the nature of life.

Like a circle we will constantly go through our ups and downs. We will be at the top of the circle sometimes and at other times at the bottom.

We need this balance .

I  needed  to feel hurt in order to know true love.

Blessings do indeed come in a variety of disguises.

 

We-Me and G- have been through so much and I still feel the same way I do about him that I did the first time I met him.

Oh he is a pain in the ass at times, stubborn and well… stubborn..

He respects me more than any other man I have been with.

Trusts me – we don’t have secrets even the worst kind .

He isn’t perfect but who is?

These are my words for today.

 

About Daisy Willows

'Words are my everything' - Jon Wayne . A writer of poetry, stories, stage scripts, fiction, border line poetry & freestyle works, Music reviews, Guest Features/interview & shout outs. She is also passionate about raising anti-stigma & awareness for Mental Health. A trained co-facilitator in Wellness Recovery Action plan by Mary Ellen Copeland Natasha goes by many moniker names-Daisy Willows, bahtuhkid, GOAT2Bdazee. She has had a colourful life. Travelled. Natasha co-owns a second-hand clothing & accessories business -La Bella Bijoux Ltd Natasha was born in South Africa & is a French national. She currently resides in the UK Natasha Bodley holds a postgraduate in the Humanities. A BA in Myth in the Greek and Roman worlds & Advanced creative writing. She also holds a Foundation degree in Acting performance. She is currently working on her first novel (semi-autobiographical creative non-fiction). She has published one short story on Amazon called 'Number one' Connect with Natasha Collaborate with Natasha & feel free to Communicate her too. Light, Peace & Love!

Posted on 2016-06-16, in Write to create and tagged , , , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 56 Comments.

  1. Wow….That is indeed a superb verse.

    I simply loved the depth of expressing ur emotions which you have been able to pinned it down…..

    Liked by 1 person

  2. I’m always impressed by your insight and understanding of the world. I’m happy for you entering this new chapter in your life. Name change or not you will still be an inspiration to me!

    Liked by 1 person

  3. wwwpalfitness

    I am getting it from all sides. Physical, work loss, anxiety, heart issues, shoulder, back and total tears of shoulders. I have barely been able to post this week and I am going to have plenty to do.

    Liked by 1 person

    • Hi Paul. Sorry about what you are going through. I really wish I knew of a way to help other than be a support in the Blogging world. have faith , friend. The circle of life is always turning 🙂

      Like

      • wwwpalfitness

        Someone told me to get a gofundme account. I think it is a static link that has people contribute. I mentioned it to you earlier and a second person said it was legit. I would feel odd doing it but worse leaving with just a bag with me and my computer to stay in a shelter knowing all else will get trashed.

        Liked by 1 person

      • Well if you are being threatened with homelessness I think you should give this GoFund thing a chance. You are fighting for a home to call your own. You are not trying to dupe people into giving you money so you can buy a new pair of shoes! If it is legit – use what is around you to get you back on your feet my friend 🙂

        Like

  4. wwwpalfitness

    Reblogged this on wwwpalfitness.

    Liked by 1 person

  5. Daisy I know you are going to be a stunning Bride and u do hope you share pics with your readers! So excited for you and you soon to be husband. Congrats to you both and can’t wait to read how you have embraced and found comfort in your new life!

    Liked by 1 person

    • Hey Chanel! Thanks that is so lovely to say. I will defo be sharing pics. I’ve got so much happening this year to look forward to.I defo think this is going to be a year I grow and understand and develop my potential xxxx I

      Liked by 1 person

  6. Advanced Research Technology

    I’m so excited for you… the whole lot of it! This post touched on so many positive changes. What a restoration of the past, eh? New ways of looking at things, new approaches, and new direction… all in one tight knit, little, and happy family. This is a great foundation for your future. 😉

    Liked by 1 person

  7. I’m excited and happy for you. Your enthusiasm and optimism are refreshing.

    Liked by 1 person

  8. I love this post, Daisy. 🙂

    Like

  9. Congratulations for you and your daughter’s name changing good news. You seem really happy. I’m happy for you 🙂

    Like

  10. Morgan M Byers

    https://uniqueharmoney.wordpress.com/2016/06/16/a-new-day/
    I am smiling Daisy hugs to you my friend blessings and blessings

    Like

  11. Wishing you only the best! Great words to live by.

    Liked by 1 person

  12. Marvelous, Daisy! I’m so happy for you! ❤

    Liked by 1 person

  13. Such a beautiful, heartfelt post! Best of luck to you in this new chapter of your life. 😊💕

    Like

  14. ‘LOVE(ly)’ post…..Yes! Love does conquer….including the little hiccups! Keep Loving. ❤ Hugs!

    Liked by 1 person

  15. This is a very nice post Daisy and straight from the heart. Good things definitely happen to good people no matter how hard might be from the beginning.💝

    Liked by 1 person

  16. Lovely post…..

    Liked by 1 person

  17. I am so happy for you 🙂 All the best on your new journey as Mr & Mrs 🙂 xxx

    Liked by 1 person

  18. I love your honesty. Wishing you LOTS of wonderful blessings on your journey together.

    Liked by 1 person

  19. I Sing the Body Electric

    You’re a wise one aren’t you 😆 This is a beautiful post-thanks for letting all of us travel on your inner journey with you. I am so blimin excited about your wedding, it’s ridiculous! I’ve never even met you haha 😂 Gaz is a lucky guy too. 💖

    Liked by 1 person

  20. Beautiful Daisy, so raw and honest. This is such an exciting time for you, new beginnings indeed, with the love of your life. Enjoy it all …

    Liked by 1 person

Feel free to connect or add your words & thoughts.

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out /  Change )

Google photo

You are commenting using your Google account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )

Connecting to %s

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.

%d bloggers like this: