I’ve been catching up and reading my favourite blogs and the new ones I have started following. Hers the thing: I never ever feel alone in this blogging world. I read stories/ poems that speak to me in a language that get’s lost in translation when it comes out of your mouth.
I always wondered why? why people had to experience pain. Why people have to suffer, why do we get hurt by people lose people, break up, say awful things, do horrible things to our bodies and mind? I came across this poem by an unknown author when I was about 14/15 years old. It has really helped shape my thoughts and see things in a new light and it has helped me to move on. I’d like to share it with anyone who is having a battle, struggling or just need some kind of answers.
REASON SEASON LIFETIME POEM
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.
When you figure out which one it is,
you will know what to do for each person.
When someone is in your life for a REASON,
it is usually to meet a need you have expressed.
They have come to assist you through a difficulty;
to provide you with guidance and support;
to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.
They may seem like a godsend, and they are.
They are there for the reason you need them to be.
Then, without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time,
this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end.
Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away.
Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand.
What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done.
The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON,
because your turn has come to share, grow or learn.
They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh.
They may teach you something you have never done.
They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy.
Believe it. It is real. But only for a season.
LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons;
things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation.
Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person,
and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.
It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.